You've probably seen him before - the type of guy who never seems to have a lack of social options.

He is always out on an after-work date with the ladies, or having a karaoke session with a group of them at a time.

What's more, he never appears anxious in their presence or intimidated by them, even the very gorgeous ones, and he is always relaxed and at their charming best. What's more, he may not even be good looking!

Why is this so, you may wonder. Let's unravel this little mystery.

The reason that such a guy can be so comfortable in the presence of good-looking women is because he has learnt to de-sensitize themselves to any 'bad' feelings such as anxiety and discomfort when interacting with beautiful women.

And being with good-looking company is nothing out of the ordinary for this type of men - it's like eating rice, just your normal, everyday activity. So, meeting yet another beautiful girl does not become a flustering experience.

Can any guy do that? You bet.

Being relaxed in front of women (no matter how beautiful), is a habit that can be learned. And this habit is more easily formed than most guys think.

You can even begin to learn this right away. Study this phrase:

To make meeting gorgeous women a natural thing, you must actively surround yourself daily with gorgeous women.

It sounds simple enough, but what I mean is this:

Many guys avoid encounters with gorgeous women and when they're finally in the presence of one, they freak out.

But it will be different if you build such encounters into your lifestyle.

For instance, do you go to the men's barber, or make a trip to the hair salon where cute female hairstylists work?

And when you take your meals, do you eat at places where you just order and go, such as fast-food restaurants, or do you eat at restaurant where with good-looking waitresses serve at your table?

When you exercies, do you just pump weights in your room? Or do you get a friend with a gym membership to sign you in, so you can meet fit beauties?

That's what I mean by actively surrounding your daily ife with nice-looking women.

So take some time to plan these encounters, and you will find yourself getting used to them soon enough Feeling uncomfortable in the presence of female company will be taking a back seat in your mind, and seeing an increase of female company in your life is almost expected.

All it takes is a little shift in your daily routine to make an awesome difference.

About the writer:

Skilldo is an 'ex-unhappy' Singaporean guy - who grew from being lonely,
dateless and single... into breaking out of it, and obtained a fulfilling
social life in meeting, dating and entering satisfying relationships with
women.

He is the author of 'The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter'. A
locally-focused guide for Singapore men to approach, date and successfully
attract the type of women they want for themselves.

He maintains a website containing secrets and training for men at -
http://www.seductionsingapore.com