No love, just sex

"Over the years, I have been unfaithful with about 20 men. Each affair normally lasts about a year, but I'm still with someone I began an affair with eight years ago. I never get emotionally attached to my lovers; I see them purely in a sexual light.

I've broken up with men who cannot bring me to orgasm too, because if they cannot pleasure me sexually, then there's no point carrying on the affair. I always practise safe sex.

"I know what I'm doing is wrong, and I feel guilty every time I'm with another man, but I tell myself that it's just sex, nothing more. I would feel much worse if I fell in love with one of these men, because that would be betraying my husband.

I'm afraid he'll find out about my infidelities one day. I feel terrible that I am incapable of enjoying sex with him, but I really don't know how to bring it up to him.

He is a wonderful man, and I don't want to hurt his feelings by making him think he's not doing something right in bed. I'm not even sure why I cannot have pleasurable sex with my husband. Maybe I just have trouble communicating my sexual desires to him."

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