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Ashley Madison: Ban 'unjustifiable'
by Jennifer Dhanaraj

Singapore - The people behind adultery website Ashley Madison are consulting legal advice about challenging the Singapore Government's decision to block it.

Calling it "unjustifiable", a statement from the Canadian-based site said that "suppression of freedoms, especially around interpersonal connections, can never succeed".

It noted that infidelity is not a crime in Singapore and other adult-network sites that facilitate sexual encounters operate legally in Singapore.

The company behind the website, Avid Dating Life, also said that "the decision to disallow a leading social platform to operate in Singapore, based on the moral objections of a small percentage of Singapore's population, runs counter to the accepting and open-minded nature of Singapore and its diverse citizens".

The website first came to prominence when freesheet MyPaper ran a story on Oct 23 about how it planned "to set up shop" in Singapore. The site has versions for various Asian countries, including Hong Kong and Japan.

A Facebook petition, founded on the same day by a Mr Ng, called for a ban on the website.

Two days later, Social and Family Development Minister Chan Chun Sing said in a Facebook post: "I do not welcome such a website into Singapore. I'm against any company or website that harms marriage.

Promoting infidelity undermines trust and commitment between a husband and wife, which are core to marriage."

Last Friday, the Media Development Authority (MDA) announced the ban, saying that the website "aggressively promotes and facilitates extramarital affairs" and "declared that it will specifically target Singaporeans".

It is understood that Ashley Madison was aiming to launch in Singapore later this month.

In response, AshleyMadison. com's CEO Noel Biderman, 42, took aim directly at MDA's statement: "Contrary to what has been stated by the MDA, (the site) does not aggressively promote extra- marital affairs.

"We provide a platform and social network for like-minded adults that cannibalises an already existing behaviour pattern."

It also trotted out statistics from a 2012 Durex survey which showed, according to Ashley Madison, an already existing trait that "female Singaporeans rank as the 5th most unfaithful women in the world."

The Durex survey polled 29,000 people in 36 countries. There were 506 respondents in Singapore. It showed that 62 per cent of women in Ghana admitting to cheating on their boyfriends and husbands.

Thai women were second on 59 per cent, Malaysians third on 39 per cent and Russians fourth on 33 per cent. After that came Singapore women at 19 per cent.

The statement also trotted out figures that showed that the "divorce rates in Singapore had risen steadily" and in 2012, 24 per cent of divorces were due to adultery.

Mr Biderman, who is married, and claims to be faithful to his wife also said: "If MDA wants to blame inanimate objects for causing moral corruption, than there is a long list of products that will need to be banned as well, including the iPhone, condoms, hotels and Facebook. Each one of these items may play a role in an adulterous affair."


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readers' comments


Just My View...

Challenging the Singapore Government?...Better don't turn up in Singapore if you do it...They may even charge you in your absence and then send Interpol a warrant of arrest to track you down and extradite you to Singapore for punishment...Another dumb angmoh like the author of a Jolly Hangman?...
Posted by kooldog59 on Wed, 13 Nov 2013 at 21:46 PM


Good one, mystrawberry !! All the (black) pots calling kettles black. hiak hiak hiak hiak.
Posted by Gerigeriyeo on Wed, 13 Nov 2013 at 21:04 PM
Didn't our local men (who loved to bad mouth local women on the welcoming of whites) are now welcoming these angmohs to #$%^ themselves too? :D
Posted by mystrawberry on Wed, 13 Nov 2013 at 16:54 PM
They can file a complain with WTO ....
Posted by PowerPeople on Wed, 13 Nov 2013 at 14:21 PM
hundreds of fake sexy women profiles

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APaGwa0AkBk
Posted by LittleRoadRunner on Wed, 13 Nov 2013 at 14:06 PM


That's an interesting thought.

If we had a way to identify if a person had an "infidelity" gene in their DNA, I'm sure these persons will find it hard get a mate to marry.

But then, if they were never really committed to marriage in the first place, it wouldn't matter too much to them either. It would do much to reduce the divorce rates since these would be poor candidates for marriage and reduce future angst to families and couples even before actually tying the knot.

This would be a good "must-do" marriage suitability test for all couples before marriage to filter out ineligible marriageable persons; much like the marriage preparation courses some couples go through.

Posted by Gerigeriyeo on Wed, 13 Nov 2013 at 12:38 PM
Also ban him from coming to Singapore as well. Make money from other people misery very chek ark wan.
Posted by maipenrai on Tue, 12 Nov 2013 at 16:45 PM
This angmoh is talented, black can say to become white. Why not try him out, such as offer him consultancy job minus Ashley Madison, with tasks to raise our birth rate and reduce our divorce rate at the same time....
Posted by MaleAlpha on Tue, 12 Nov 2013 at 16:41 PM
Extremely thick skin fellow......:D
Posted by davteo5 on Tue, 12 Nov 2013 at 16:33 PM
Why not call president or prime minister, justify to them over the phone or face to face, if he really so convinced is moral
Posted by jameslee58 on Tue, 12 Nov 2013 at 16:29 PM

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