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Measures to make ex-spouses pay up
by Carolyn Quek

DEADBEAT dads are in for a hard time.

Courts will be empowered to sentence them to do community service, go for financial counselling or even post a bank guarantee to ensure they do not default on maintenance payments to their ex-wives and children.

New measures are also being put in place to make it easier for ex-spouses to seek and enforce maintenance orders.

These moves, alerted by Minister for Community Development, Youth and Sports (MCYS) Vivian Balakrishnan last year, are set to come into force by next year.

In announcing the stiffer enforcement actions yesterday, Dr Balakrishnan noted that the number of defaulters continues to rise.

This, despite defaulters facing the threat of jail, fines and court orders that require banks to transfer money from a defaulting spouse to the ex-wife.

Last year, 3,585 applications were made for maintenance orders to be enforced, 10 per cent more than the previous year.

Also, orders to pay alimony and child support were often shrugged off. Of the 4,515 orders issued in 2005, 966 or 21 per cent were breached within three years.

Almost half of the 966 orders were ignored more than once.

The situation will worsen with the rise in divorces.

About 6 per cent of couples who married in 2004 had divorced by last year, their fifth year of marriage.

By comparison, for couples who were married in 1987 - including Dr Balakrishnan - the corresponding figure was only 3.2 per cent.

'In the last two decades, the likelihood of a marriage failing within five years has doubled,' the minister added, in his response to several MPs calling for a tougher stand against defaulting ex-spouses.

Among them was Madam Cynthia Phua (Aljunied GRC), who said: 'Love is blind. As a woman, I'd like to appeal to all women, take charge of your love life. If a man does not take responsibility for his ex-wife and children, there is every likelihood he'll do it again.'

The process for women to seek enforcement of the maintenance order will also be made less onerous, said Dr Balakrishnan. They will be able to lodge complaints via video links at family service centres, instead of having to personally appear in court to begin the process.

The Women's Charter will be amended to give the courts new powers to impose further penalties. These include allowing the courts to issue more orders to a defaulter's employer to deduct the maintenance amount from his salary, as well as impose community-based sentences.

Said Dr Balakrishnan: 'We've had situations where the man says, 'It's all right, put me in jail, then I can't work, then I can't pay'.

'So, courts need to have an additional menu of options in which they can penalise or deter the recalcitrants without necessarily stopping them from being able to continue working.'

A 41-year-old secretary, divorced for 12 years, cheered the new measures, saying her ex-husband had defaulted many times through the years.

The longest stretch during which he failed to pay her alimony was four months.

But even defaulting for one month was enough to throw her finances off kilter as her 12-year-old son requires special treatment for his dyslexia and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

She also supports her aged parents.

She has taken enforcement action a few times, but hesitated on several other occasions as she feared taking time off work would not go down well with her employer.

'With the video link filing, I believe the applications for such complaints will definitely go up.'

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New measures

Deterring defaulters:

# Spouses who fail to pay maintenance can be ordered by the court to post a bank guarantee to set aside funds against future defaults.

# They can be sentenced to do community service by the courts.

# They can also be ordered to go for financial counselling by the courts.

# Their spouses can report the maintenance amount owing to them to credit bureaus, to better reflect the credit standing of defaulters.

# People registering their second or subsequent marriages must declare any outstanding maintenance debts.

# Employers will also get more orders from the courts to deduct the maintenance amount from an employee's salary.

# Complaining ex-spouses can, under a soon-to-be-amended law, obtain employment information of defaulters from the CPF Board.

Easier enforcement:

# Court processes will be improved to make it easier for complainants to enforce maintenance orders.

# Courts will be given powers to order defaulting spouses to provide information on their financial status.

# People without lawyers to help them enforce maintenance orders can turn to newly launched centres called Help, or Helping to Empower Litigants-in-Person.

This article was first published in The Straits Times.

readers' comments
haha cylon6, I take it you are borned blind. I also take it you must have been abusing your innocent hubby. oh poooo.. Singapore cry for you? wake your mother****ing ideas up! lmfao~ I'll bet fu5ture guys will make use of you and make you "looser"
Posted by sdlimmmm on Tue, 11 May 2010 at 16:09 PM
SG males all deserve it. No backbone, stabbed by their own govt despite serving ns, lose jobs to women and foreign talents. This country hates males.
Posted by cylon6 on Sun, 14 Mar 2010 at 23:45 PM


Singapore laws favor women. Simple as that. Want a change vote for opposition.
Posted by icemanV on Sun, 14 Mar 2010 at 22:39 PM


I dont think so. I have seen wonderful husband who did not get to see his kids because his wife has a change of heart to some guy. Don't give me the crap that women is all good because there are some bad apples.

Singapore laws always side women. No backbone. Need to change the govt. They sucks in protecting man's right.
Posted by icemanV on Sun, 14 Mar 2010 at 22:38 PM
....Now my guy friend is too afraid to marry liao...he also quit his oversea job at that point...they co-own a house and he still have to pay monthly mortgage....life suck after that fail marriage...which is no fault of his...when can we have a Man's Charter...in this modern age , women and children may not necessary be the weaker sex any more...than why the privilege!!!
Posted by kaypohts on Sun, 14 Mar 2010 at 19:55 PM
73laowg...there are all types of reasons why ppl divorce...i have a friend who went oversea to work immediately after he got married...guess what...his wife stayed in Singapore...after 5 mths..his wife cannot tahan family "obligations" and wants freedom again(what kind of excuse is that)..she ask for divorce...and she got it..the best part her lawyer tell her to get alimony from her ex-husband even if they dun have children....and she got it again...$500 per month..(because my friend too kind did not engage lawyer to fight...and perhaps love her too much) for her to spend freely....as long as she is not married...what kind of stupid law do we have in Singapore where even when the the guy is the innocent one, the gal can even get her shares!!! Where the lawyer add fuel to fire by encouraging all kinds of nonsense to squeeze from the guy...my friend is just an ordinary guy.... Now .....
Posted by kaypohts on Sun, 14 Mar 2010 at 19:55 PM
73laowg...there are all types of reasons why ppl divorce...i have a friend who went oversea to work immediately after he got married...guess what...he wife stayed in Singapore...after 5 mths..her wife cannot tahan family "obligations" and wants freedom again(what kind of excuse is that)..she ask for divorce...and she got it..the best part her lawyer tell her to get alimony from her ex-husband even if they dun have children....and she got it again...$500 per month..(because my friend too kind did not engage lawyer to fight...and perhaps love her too much) for her to spend freely....as long as she is not married...what kind of stupid law do we have in Singapore where even when the the guy is the innocent one, the gal can even get her shares!!! Where the lawyer add fuel to fire by encouraging all kinds of nonsense to squeeze from the guy...my friend is just an ordinary guy ....Now .....
Posted by kaypohts on Sun, 14 Mar 2010 at 19:53 PM
why must men pay his ex.spouses wife,since singaporean women are better educated earning hefty pay packed each month,best option men should do,quit his job and stays at home without earning any income.
Posted by cerilchan on Sun, 14 Mar 2010 at 19:19 PM
why must men pay maintenance to ex-spouses,since now women are better paid then men,and the women charter law is so old,and needed to be review,i think it is better not to married women in singapore rather then keep them as companion,because law here is against men.
Posted by cerilchan on Sun, 14 Mar 2010 at 19:12 PM
Big bro always call for Singaporean....Marriage.....Marriage...and more babies.....IS this you would end up????

5 years increase in 6% divorce!!! how childish!!!! Compared to our parent times???? No way to fight!!!

WHY there is always stupid rules...and YET no MP is doing how to stop divorce????

THEN how dare to go for Marriage???? That why more Single singaporean!!!

SIGH.......poor Garment got many scholar....but no one able to stop this !!!

Social matching companies....YOU must MATCH and Prepare to assist Divorce as well....YOU should know your websites....for many divorcee....

Poor culture in our Island.....
Posted by JusticeVin on Sun, 14 Mar 2010 at 14:17 PM

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