Choosing the right preschool for a child can be challenging for parents. Knowing what to look out for when making this decision will help guide you to a school which reflects your own values and expectations for your child.

Here are a few tips to help you and your child feel confident that you have made the right choice:

Decide what location you prefer and what your budget is. It is important that the school you choose comfortably fits into your family’s lifestyle.

Once you have narrowed down the possibilities make arrangements to visit the schools. Many schools have a similar sounding philosophy, so it is important you know what to look for in order to determine if it works for you and your child.

During your visit to each school, ask yourself if the children seem happy, are they actively engaged in a variety of activities, is the environment bright, cheerful and filled with children’s art work, is the equipment plentiful, varied and in good condition? Do the teachers seem happy, are they engaged with the children, are they good language models and are they observant and aware of all the children in their care; are the children comfortable and affectionate with the teachers?

If you are happy with your first impression then make an appointment to meet the principal.  You may consider asking the following questions:

    * What are the teachers’ experiences and qualifications?
    * How important is the children’s social and emotional development as opposed to their academic development?
    * How does the school ensure the children are prepared for Primary One?
    * How does the school deal with children testing boundaries and conflict? This is a normal aspect of young children’s development but it is important that you agree with the school’s approach to discipline.
    * How does the school ensure safety during collection times, outdoor play and field trips?
    * How well is the curriculum suited to meet individual learning styles and personalities?
    * How involved are parents? What channels of communication between home and school are encouraged?

It is important that you feel you trust the school. A positive relationship between the school and the home is vital for children to flourish. Once you feel confident you have found the best school for your child, be brave. Starting independent school for the first time is a big step not only for the child but also the parents.

Once you have made a decision give it time. In the first few weeks of school teachers will be focused on settling the children. Do not worry about what your child is learning from the curriculum. What is vital is that they are happy, confident, developing positive relationships with the teachers and making friends. In order to settle your child into a new school, whether it is Nursery One, Kindergarten One or Primary One, these areas must be your initial focus. If your child is relaxed and happy and looks forward to school each day then the foundation is set for them to reach their full potential, academically, socially and emotionally. If the school is focused on ensuring your child is well settled and happy then you have made the right choice.

This article was contributed by Fiona Walker, Principal Director, Julia Gabriel Centre for Learning & Chiltern House.