When it comes to starting a conversation, most guys think a man must be "polite", or be nice by not disagreeing with the lady.

Guys like that probably would not dare try talking to women in such public places like the foodcourt, or any other eating place for that matter.

That's a flawed thought.

This is one of the places most guys tend to MISS OUT when it comes to meeting ladies.

The women are there - in queues, sitting one table away, sharing seats at the same table as you, etc.

But most guys just look, eat and did little else.

When you're "in-tune" to the situation, plenty of opportunities for knowing the opposite sex present themselves.

Now, I'll share two examples of what was said to women in such places, one from a personal experience, another from a previous client.

The first happened back in 2006.

I was queueing to buy a sandwich at a Subway outlet. In front of me was this lady who was ordering her choice of bread and meatball toppings. I got to know she played badminton eventually.

The moment she was done ordering, I said to her: "You're sure about your choice? I tried it last week and would never dare order that again."

As I said that, I gave her a friendly face but my expression showed confusion at her choice of menu.

That got her puzzled and she exclaimed: "Huh, why? That bad ah?"

So I teased her by saying: "Too late for you now. The staff is already preparing your sandwich."

And she joked right back: "In that case, you better let me eat whatever sandwich you are ordering."

From the conversation, she appeared receptive to chatting with me and a healthy exchange of jolly conversation followed.

We proceeded to sit together, and chatted right through our meal. We even traded our contact numbers for a future meet-up.

You're probably thinking: "The girl must be a nice person, so chatting her up was easy. It wouldn't be so simple if she was one of those "nasty" types."

That may be true. And I have met nasty gals on countless occasions, but that's for another discussion.

But think about it - there's NO WAY I would have found out if she was nasty or nice, if I didn't start her chatting in the first place.

Another example which happened to a previous client of mine: It took place in January this year while he was at a foodcourt, having his lunchbreak.

The table next to him was empty. Minutes later, a lady came by and sat down at that table with her tray of food and began to eat.

My client turned to her, pointed at her plate of food and said: "I can't help but stare at what's on your plate."

The lady replied: "What happened?"

He continued in a playful manner: "At least five of my colleagues tried the food from the same stall, and none of them liked it. If you like it, you must be either different, or you're forcing yourself to eat it."

The lady laughed and said: "It tastes quite alright what. My tastebuds are different from other people, that's why."

They began to chat about how each of their own company's lunch breaks were too short, and compared notes about their own workplaces, allowing the conversation to flow as they talked.

The point is, conversations can take on a life of their own when both parties have different viewpoints on the same subject matter.

To clarify, good things can happen when you "disgree" with a gal.


Skilldo is an 'ex-unhappy' Singaporean guy - who grew from being lonely,
dateless and single... into breaking out of it, and obtained a fulfilling
social life in meeting, dating and entering satisfying relationships with
women.

He is the author of 'The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter'. A
locally-focused guide for Singapore men to approach, date and successfully
attract the type of women they want for themselves.

He maintains a website containing secrets and training for men at -
http://www.seductionsingapore.com