Walk into a party, a club or a social setting, and you may have seen men who are able to turn on the charm and chat up the women. And they usually snag a few phone numbers when the night is done.
How do they do it?
From what I have discovered, these men with high social abilities have habits unlike other guys.
For a start, they tend to exhibit more signs of playfulness when interacting with the fairer sex.
They are also more willing to be step out of their usual comfort zones and start up conversations, which begins with the simple but effective mentality of "If other guys don't socialize with women but I do, I win".
And one last thing - Every man who has built up a wide soial circle of cute and date-able girls has 'rituals'.
What this means is that these sociable men take the trouble to get to know women and people regularly.
Here are two tips to help you build those social 'rituals' for yourself.
Firstly, while you may automatically tune into your "sociable mode" when you're at a party, you can learn to be sociable by interacting with as many people as possible, old or young, men or women in different social settings.
This will certainly help you to open up when it comes to making small talk with women.
Also, make it a habit to put yourself in situations and places where there are women, as you carry out your daily tasks.
For instance, why eat with friends and colleagues you already know?
Take the opportunity to go to a food court during lunch hour and share a seat with some lady strangers.
Or go to a restaurant where there are cute waitresses or patrons. You're going to eat anyway, so why not utilise that time to meet new people?
Or how about shopping? Since you will be getting yourself outfits on a regular basis, it is a good idea to visit several shops and interact with those attractive female assistants while you are in there.
You will be one step closer to building up your sociability factor as you practice your conversational skills, and could well lead to you keeping in contact with them.
By enlarging your social circle intentionally, you also up your chances of meeting someone who is date-able.
About the writer:
Skilldo is an 'ex-unhappy' Singaporean guy - who grew from being lonely, dateless and single... into breaking out of it, and obtained a fulfilling social life in meeting, dating and entering satisfying relationships with women.
He is the author of 'The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter'. A locally-focused guide for Singapore men to approach, date and successfully attract the type of women they want for themselves.
He maintains a website containing secrets and training for men at - http://www.seductionsingapore.com
