Sober and smarter

After those two incidents, I made sure I’d never wind up having drunken sex again. I started drinking later in the night, so I could last longer.

And if a guest offered me a drink, I’d take slow sips instead of gulping it down. If you finish your drink faster, people tend to top it up.

I also constantly drank water to “recover” after each glass of alcohol. I also try not to mix my drinks, but it’s tough because my customers buy me different sorts of alcohol. I’ll just sip a little so it won’t kick in so fast.

Thanks to all this, I’ve never passed out or had drunken sexual encounters again.

These days, I get through the night on five glasses of alcohol, a big drop from when I started. Sure, I get high sometimes, but I’m always conscious.

I know what I’m doing. If I’ve reached my limit, I’ll say, “sorry guys, gotta go” and head home. Controlling your alcohol intake is all in the mind.

You shouldn’t give in to peer pressure.

I’m still in the party business. Despite how exhausting it is, I love my job and I love entertaining.

Some people think women who work in nightlife are cheap and that we sleep around. But in fact, because we’ve seen so much, we know how to protect ourselves. I know my limits now and how not to get into trouble.

I did regret sleeping with Max and Eric initially, but now, I don’t because those incidents helped me realise that I never want to do it again.

My advice for women who’ve had party sex: don’t waste your time and energy on regret. It’s more important to learn from your mistakes. Anyone can say that they regret having drunken sex, but then get plastered again at another party and repeat their mistake.

They don’t learn. If you really regret hooking up, make up your mind that you’re going to change something – for instance, watching the amount you drink when you’re partying.

I do believe you have control. Always be careful when you’re out having a good time. Watch your drinks, party with good friends and if you do hook up with someone, get protection.