I AM 28 and still single. In my whole life, I've never been involved in a close relationship with anybody.

I'm an extroverted guy, and am friends with many people. And they tell me I'm a funny guy. There are certain people in my life who have been close friends with me for years. All of them are female.

Everything seemed to be fine, but when I asked to be more than a friend, "No" was the only answer I got. Then, somehow, they became busy. One person I knew cut off all forms of communication with me.

For many years, I have met wonderful women in my life. Sadly, I also faced a series of rejections. And because of that, I feel very lonely. Honestly, I am afraid to start a new relationship. I can't bear another rejection.

Currently, I am struggling to fight my feelings for someone. Yet, she's slowly conquering my mind. Each passing moment kills me as my feelings grow stronger each day.

I really don't know what to do. This wonderful woman has been so nice to me.

Single

MAYBE the gals never took you seriously because you fitted in as funny buddy rather than boyfriend/husband material. You were sweet, caring and considerate to everyone, so none of girls ever felt special with you.

You are not an old man who is over the hill, so do not feel so dejected and desperate. And why are you struggling against your feelings when you have finally found a woman who seems to be interested in you?

Cut out the melodrama and get her while she is still around. The trick is to make sure that this wonderful woman knows how you feel about her. Never make her part of a group of gal friends. She may suspect that you are a playboy out for fun and sex.

Focus all your feelings and attention on her. Do not just act the jester who doesn't take life seriously. Show that you are capable of being committed and responsible.

A woman expects to be the most important person in her man's life so never talk about your gal buddies when you are on a date. Flirt only with her and do not attempt to be a ladies' man.

You are only 28. You haven't lost out on too many years. Keep trying and surely you will find your truly wonderful woman to love and cherish.