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Thu, 19 Dec 2013
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"I chanced upon my hubby and his other family while on holiday"
by Azlinda Said

Kim’s vacation with her husband became a nightmare when she bumped into his secret second wife and stepkids. As told to Azlinda Said.

It started out like any other holiday. My husband Fred* and I had been to this hotel many times before. In fact, it had become a ritual for us to visit every year, staying about five days each time - Fred had found the place and I liked the delicious food and wonderful spa treatments they offered. Some years, we went alone, and other years, our two youngchildren would come along.

Fred had many friends and business associates there, and he would occasionally leave me to my own devices while he went to meet them, coming back in time for dinner.

The other woman

On this holiday, Fred, as usual, told me he was going to meet his buddies. Innocently, I asked to tag along - in all the 10 years we had been holidaying there, I'd never met his friends. Fred refused, saying I'd be bored with their mundane chatter. He asked me to enjoy the hotel facilities and wait for his return later that evening. I reluctantly agreed.

However, two hours later, I decided to go shopping in town. I spent a fair bit of time walking around, working up an appetite. Feeling famished, I headed to a nearby cafe for some snacks and a cup of tea.

As I crossed the road to the cafe, I saw Fred sitting at one of the tables, feeding three young children. They must be his friends' kids, I thought. Eager for my husband's company, I hurried over to him, only to stop short when I noticed a petite woman carrying a tray of food making her way towards Fred.

Seeing is believing

I watched as she sat next to Fred and leaned in for a kiss. My eyes widened in disbelief as my husband kissed her back on the lips. My heart sank as I watched them gaze lovingly into each other's eyes.

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Oh yahor ... he eat Abalones and Cockles .... of course U know not him ... :p :D :D

Posted by Small Fly on Mon, 23 Dec 2013 at 13:10 PM
Fancy that, its always the wife fault, cannot keep his man stupid, don't blame the hubby, wife is to blame he probably got fed up with the wife and seek better pasture or new sexual adventure. Let it be he will soon get bored with his new found mistress,etc and will continue to look for younger gal,etc. The time will come when his sibling will get involved with your sibling and than come trouble like having a very close family interrelationship.and than you will produce weirdo in the family,etc
Posted by johnbeaszley on Sun, 22 Dec 2013 at 15:05 PM

I no mention name .. Not him lah..
Posted by merlin12 on Sat, 21 Dec 2013 at 16:13 PM
Really??? Thot CB Com is a vegan ... no eat pork chop type ... U sure or not ??? :p :D :D

Posted by Small Fly on Sat, 21 Dec 2013 at 12:28 PM
must be batam
Posted by fellowhuman on Sat, 21 Dec 2013 at 12:14 PM

see... u hepocreep again :D:p
Posted by baoxingtian on Fri, 20 Dec 2013 at 22:04 PM

Me? No lah, you are the one Bao da ren....
Posted by hfourhappy on Fri, 20 Dec 2013 at 21:59 PM

u lor :D:p
Posted by baoxingtian on Fri, 20 Dec 2013 at 21:58 PM

Not only charbo, man do too.
Posted by hfourhappy on Fri, 20 Dec 2013 at 21:57 PM

like to laugh at ppl wan is seow charbo lor :D:p
Posted by baoxingtian on Fri, 20 Dec 2013 at 21:55 PM


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