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Transgender couple wants a child
by Zaihan Mohamed Yusof

Boy meets girl. They fall in love and get married.

The next step? Kids, naturally. It’s just a matter of time, most would agree.

But for this Thai couple, life is not so straightforward.

They are transgenders.

One is a man bent on becoming a woman, and the other is a woman who wants to become a man.

And their dream is to have a child while it is still physically possible.

"Love can happen to anyone," Mr Sittichai "Pond" Suafug tells The New Paper on Sunday from Bangkok, through an interpreter, “even though we may not be regarded as 'normal'.

"Every gender can love and be loved as well as live together in (Bangkok).

"Who in the world would believe that a tomboy would fall in love with a ladyboy?"

Their unusual love story, reported in The Bangkok Post on Nov 2, has captured the attention of the Thai public. A short video clip on the newspaper’s website has garnered 11,500 views as of yesterday.

What makes their situation more intriguing – and controversial – is their determination to have a child.

Says Mr Suafug, 23, who intends to get a full-time job after completing university:“We want to start a family soon via artificial insemination. But we would have to seek medical consultation as well as counselling."

He would not elaborate why the couple would require medical help to conceive.

Only with the "child issue" resolved would Mr Suafug and his lover Benhamaporn "Ben" Rotjutakul, consider going for their sex change operations.

Mr Suafug, who refers to himself as "phuying praphet song" (a woman of the second kind) rather than the more degrading "khatoey" (ladyboy or transgender male), first met his lover five years ago while playing online games.

Neither of them knew of the other's sexual orientation, says Mr Suafug, who has long silky curls.

Read the full story here.

Photos: Bangkok Post Video Screengrabs

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as long as there's a hole...just go for it !

Posted by jameslee58 on Thu, 15 Nov 2012 at 21:06 PM
If I want to volunteer my help to them ... so do I insert and inseminate the HUSBAND or the WIFE??? If inseminate the HUSBAND, which hole to insert (backside?) ? :p :D :D

Not easy to be a good Samaritan siah .... :o
Posted by Small Fly on Thu, 15 Nov 2012 at 14:15 PM
can always use surrogate mother, a lot of gay couple is doing it, in singapore also have such gay couple with children, all you need is money ...

Posted by jameslee58 on Thu, 15 Nov 2012 at 12:35 PM
So now we can have a case of the husband carrying the baby for nine months before giving birth.
Many women like this very muchy :D
Posted by maipenrai on Thu, 15 Nov 2012 at 10:38 AM
This world is surely a strange and wonderful place full of surprises!!! Love really comes in all forms and kinds! Good luck to them. Some no matter how "normal" they think they are, may never find what these two have found!!!
Posted by SingaporeUncle on Thu, 15 Nov 2012 at 00:55 AM
Imagine their child introducing them. "He is my mother and She is my father ! " And the kid's teacher says, "It's wrong usage of the pronoun !" "'He' is used for male and 'She' is used for females" That leaves the child sad and more confuse. The child says. "But I am right ! My mum is a man and my dad is a woman !" LOL !!
Posted by angmoboho on Thu, 15 Nov 2012 at 00:24 AM

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