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Sat, Oct 10, 2009
The New Paper
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S'porean man had not one, but three wives
by Chong Shin Yen

HE WAS married, with three grown-up children.

But that didn’t stop Keh Teck Bok, 60, from going after a Chinese national whom he met while on tour in China.

Keh got her pregnant, and married her in her hometown in Hunan province.

Then, five years later, history repeated itself.

This time, it was a Filipino maid who was working here for his friend.

She got pregnant, so he married her in the Philippines.

By that time, Keh was divorced from his first wife, a Singaporean. But he was still married to his China wife.

His bigamous ways were discovered when he applied for his China wife to remain in Singapore.

On 25 Sep, the taxi driver was sentenced to one day in jail and fined $5,000 for marrying his China wife while still married to his Singaporean wife.

Another bigamy charge – marrying his Filipino wife while married to his China wife – was taken into consideration.

But he spent five days in jail and was released only after his elder son from his first marriage paid the fine for him.

Under the law, a married person can be convicted of bigamy if he or she marries again here or elsewhere.

Keh told The New Paper in Mandarin: “I know it’s against the law to commit bigamy. “But I liked all three women when I married them.”

The balding, bespectacled man said he had no intention of lying to his two mistresses.

“I just didn’t know how to tell them that I was a married man. But they all found out in the end.”

Of the three women, he felt the most apologetic towards his first wife.

“I’ve let her down and broken up our family,” he said.

They were divorced in 2002 and he is no longer in contact with her.

He has also lost touch with his Filipino wife.

His only wish is to get approval for his China wife, Madam Zhang Lanying, 35, a seamstress, to be allowed to remain here so that they can be reunited.

The court heard that Keh had applied for Madam Zhang to stay here as his spouse a few years ago.

It was while processing Keh’s application that the Immigration and Checkpoints Authority (ICA) found out about the bigamy.

Keh married his first wife, Madam Oh Im, in 1972. They have three children who are now in their 30s.

Madam Oh found out about her husband’s affair with Madam Zhang in 1997.

But she endured Keh’s infidelity as she wanted to give him a second chance.

The couple were also in the process of selling their matrimonial flat and she didn’t want Keh to create further problems.

A year later, Keh moved out to be with Madam Zhang, who was then in her 20s.

He had befriended her while touring China with his colleagues in 1997.

They exchanged contact numbers and began dating.

Their relationship was sustained by long-distance phone calls and Keh’s frequent visits to China.

When Madam Zhang got pregnant, they got married in her hometown, on 14 May 1998. Keh filed for divorce with Madam Oh the same year.

Two years ago, Madam Zhang and her son, now 9, moved to Singapore so he could study here.

When Keh tried to apply for her to remain in Singapore, his bigamy was discovered.

During the investigations, Keh was also found to have married Ms Mary Jane Ubando Tamayo, a Filipino, on 28 May 2003 in the Philippines.

Keh said he got to know Ms Tamayo here when she was working as a maid for his friend. She was in her early 20s then.

“She didn’t know how to do housework when she first came and I found her pitiful,” he said. “So I tried to help her as much as I could.”

Over time, he fell for her.

Keh said that Ms Tamayo wanted to return to Philippines, so he gave her some money to do so.

He added: “Then, she was pregnant with my child and asked me to marry her so that she wouldn’t be mocked.

“I was trying to help her when I married her in the Philippines. To be honest, I don’t even know how old my son is.”

He said he had seen their son only once, when he was still a baby.

“I’ve lost all contact with her. I don’t know what they are doing now,” he said.

In his mitigation, Keh’s lawyer, Mr Gurdaib Singh, said that Keh deeply regretted his actions.

Said Mr Singh: “It was in good faith to bring his China wife to stay here that he approached the authorities for help.

“He didn’t realise the flip side.”

The court heard that Madam Zhang is barred from entering Singapore as a result of Keh’s present offences.

For bigamy, Keh could have been jailed seven years and fined.

This article was first published in The New Paper.

 

readers' comments
Age 60+, "shao kang zhi qi" left you, 3rd wife left you, soon all your children will leave you, then the china wife after attaining citizenship will also leave you, what will you be when you are 70+ ???????
After enjoying all the excitment of betraying your wife, you will end up "shi wu zhang sheng zi di", with no home, no children to pray for you, no wife to weep for loss of love, no neighbour to pity you, haha... is this what you want?
And worse, no money to bury yourselves.
Serve you right!!! REMEMBER : The chinese says, a man who throw away his "shao kang zhi qi" will not have good ending.
Posted by Wishful Thinking on Sun, 11 Oct 2009 at 08:09 AM
Wow! My fullest sympathy to his all his children to have an old pervert as a father. One thing for sure, he will fall sick and die as a very lonely man. Doubt any of his wife will see him. Not surprise if second wife is fooling around behind his back.
Posted by Hahaha09 on Sun, 11 Oct 2009 at 07:57 AM
What a lucky guy?! Three times he got lucky! It is worth the fines and jail term. At least this guy contributes his fair share in nation building by helping Singapore to increase her population.
Posted by toratoratora on Sun, 11 Oct 2009 at 05:57 AM
Must be true love. Must tell him that there is a polygamous club being formed in Malaysia...
Posted by johnnykwek on Sun, 11 Oct 2009 at 05:30 AM
don't usually like to post any comment but this fool got me into taking the trouble to register as a member so that i could give him this message: don't ever try to fool any body, you got the young philippino girl pregnant and you are trying to HELP her by marrying her so that she will not be mock at.. only fool like you can come up with such excuses.. i have only this to tell you, you are such idiotic, despicable, pathetic joke...
Posted by pavmmt on Sun, 11 Oct 2009 at 00:54 AM
My friend has got THREE wives in three different countries. The first one knows the existence of the third but not the second one.The second one knows the existence of the first but not the third one. The third one knows the existence of the first but not the second. Eventually if all THREE come to find out the existence of each other then they can sit down together and have "goreng pisang" and two half-boiled eggs for
breakfast.
Posted by caseywal on Sat, 10 Oct 2009 at 20:16 PM
It is heartwarming to note that this man has so much love to give away just like the sun radiating its warmth.
But, the law syas that you can only shower all your love on one spouse.
No wonder there is a big shortage of young damsels in the market with big wolfd like jhim. There are also women who marry a few husbands.
Posted by mountaingoat on Sat, 10 Oct 2009 at 18:29 PM
Have Gun Will Travel...In finality,got gunned down by the law.
Posted by Aiyayayayai on Sat, 10 Oct 2009 at 17:55 PM
I envy him. Unfortunately polygamy is illegal now. Else I would do the same !
Posted by Ssquirrel on Sat, 10 Oct 2009 at 15:54 PM
Goodness!!! china 35 yr old? philipino only 20 plus?...Oh...it really lust surging old man looking for younger ands younger....lucky ICA caught it!! if not his cleanlines story woulod include" I liked the 4th one who is only 10plus!!!

He is 60plius? dammed dammed!! and these gals naive and feel lonely to go bed with. Poor gal.
Posted by JusticeVin on Sat, 10 Oct 2009 at 15:46 PM

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