What's the cost of helping?

We're often asked this question: how much is a couple supposed to give their helpers by way of a thank-you hongbao? The answer: It's relative. Some brides give more because they can afford to or because they want to, while others give a more modest sum or an amount that's the "market rate" given to helpers.

Here's a general guide:

• Main wedding coordinator: $68 to $108
  
• Maid-of-honour and best man: $68 to $88 each
• Bridesmaids and groomsmen: $48 to $68 each (it's also customary to pay for your bridesmaids' outfit)
• Flower girl and pageboy: $28 to $48 each. This includes the little boy who has to open the door for the bride.
• Ushers: $18 to $28 each
• Drivers: $48 to $68 each
• Officiant or celebrant: $88 to $588
• Hair and makeup artist: $108 to $308
• Photographer / Videographer / Cameraman (only if these are not vendors for whose services you're paying for): $108 to $408
• Confetti cleaner and any other miscellaneous helper: $18 to $28 each

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