I REFER to media reports in which Senior Minister of State (Education) Grace Fu urged parents to support disciplinary efforts in schools.
She said that some parents actively undermine efforts by the schools to discipline their children, even when the disciplinary measures are within school guidelines.
I feel school discipline has been in decline for many years.
It is not uncommon to read media reports of school bullies, students who disregard school rules with impunity, as well as those who disrupt lessons or defy teachers.
Schools are under immense pressure from vocal and demanding parents, and teachers sometimes have no choice but to adopt a hands-off policy to avoid the hassle of explaining their actions to parents who accuse them of “wrongly” meting out punishment to their children.
When I was a student, very few kids would dare to defy their teachers because they knew their parents would not “protect” them from the ensuing punishment.
Parents must work hand in hand with teachers to help mould the child’s character during his formative years.
Parents and teachers should reclaim their rights and responsibilities in ensuring that children grow up to become adults who are polite, responsible, thoughtful and respectful of rules and laws meant for the good and comfort of all.
Mr Sebastian Tan
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Is only when our live getter better, easier, we begin to realize something missing, for example; lack of moral teaching and practice, gone are the âpaying respect to elder, obedient cultureâ.
I happen to met one frustrated far relative talking about her primary one kid, his notorious behavior giving much problem in the class, teacher often call her during her working hour, asking her to do something about it, thatâs where lead to another problem at home, fighting between husband and wife, arguing the old incidents, what has gone wrong, who is responsible, the kid received scolding, more negative .....
Maybe the question should be - will our society allow that to ever happen?