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Fri, Mar 30, 2012
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Plans to adopt put on hold
by Kwok Kar Peng

One and a half years ago, local celebrity couple Pierre Png and Andrea De Cruz had talked about adopting children.

But they've shelved their plans for now.

Png, 38, told The New Paper in an interview on Monday that it's still one of their priorities, but they are currently into saving unwanted and abandoned dogs.

"To bring a child into our lives is a big commitment. We need time to prepare," the MediaCorp actor said.

"Apart from giving a child a place to stay, it's also about raising the child and providing education.

"It's a different ball game from taking care of an animal. We'll see what we can do with giving animals a second chance and maybe we'll know what to do with somebody's child...

"Things happen. We may end up not adopting."

Png was at the press conference for his new Channel 8 drama Pillow Talk, which airs on Monday at 9pm.

He plays Tingkai, a newlywed who discovers that love and marriage isn't what he had expected.

The drama, which explores the meaning of marriage through the lives of four couples, also stars Joanne Peh, Michelle Chia, Xiang Yun, Thomas Ong and Jacelyn Tay, who is back on TV after a six-year absence.

Png and De Cruz, who have two puppies, are unable to have their own children as she is on anti-rejection medication after a liver transplant 10 years ago.

Png donated part of his liver to DeCruz, who was then his girlfriend, after her liver failed from taking the slimming product, Slim 10.

De Cruz, 37, told The New Paper yesterday in a separate interview that they are open to having children, but the timing has been off.

She said: "Around two or three years ago, we received phone calls from friends and had photos sent over to us of children in Malaysia who are up for adoption.

"But the timing wasn't right both times. We want to be really prepared for parenthood."

She added: "We need Pierre to have more time to be a father. Time is of the essence. Both of us do not want him to be an absent father."

Pierre has been busy filming Channel 8 dramas back to back.

Prior to Pillow Talk, he was one of the leads in Channel 8 dramas Rescue 995 and The In-Laws, and was also shooting the second season of children's drama Zero Hero on okto.

Next month, he will begin filming yet another Channel 8 drama titled X-Factor.

For now, the couple are extending their parental love to about 15 nephews, nieces and godchildren.

De Cruz said she's like a second mother to them, taking them on rides at Universal Studios Singapore even though she doesn't like roller coasters.

Png, on the other hand, sheepishly said he has been a bad godfather.

Playful godfather

Godparents need to lead the children in religious ways and he's having a tough time following that, he explained.

"I'm just a god-dad who plays with the children," he added.

For now, the pair are content with helping as many children and dogs as they can, whether ornot there's the pitter-patter of little feet in theirhome.

They are helping abandoned dogs and making monetary and dog food donations to local shelters.

De Cruz has re-homed more than 10 dogs in the last five years.

She has also been on the board of Make-A-Wish Singapore for the last three years, and also helped to build schools and orphanages for children in Cambodia.

Make-A-Wish Singapore is an organisation that grants the wishes of children with life-threatening medical conditions.

De Cruz also holds down a full-time job managing her two Cinq hair salons, at Telok Ayer Street and Scotts Square.

Png and De Cruz are now thinking of buying or renting a piece of land to house abandoned dogs before they are re-homed.

But with age fast catching up on them, have they given themselves a timeline to adopt a child?

Png feels their age would not be a constraint for them.

He knows of couples in their 60s who take in children and raise them.

"Maybe you don't adopt a five- or six-year-old but a wayward (youth) out from rehabilitation," said Png.

"(Age matters) if you see a kid as a form of investment so you can kick up your feet and relax (in your later years).

"But to us, we bring up a person not to take care of us but because we have more love to give."

But to De Cruz, the timing is especially poignant.

That's because liver transplant patients generally have a 20-year life expectancy after their operation, she said.

She told us she is feeling fine, although she is tired from her work. Occasionally, she goes for a massage or a session at the gym to unwind.

"The first half of my 20-year expectancy is already up. Maybe I should have a timeline (to adopt a child), but who's to say what will happen tomorrow or in the next 10 years?" she said.

"Time is something I don't want to think too much about. I have a very blessed life. I believe I'm allowed to live out my days on Earth for a good reason."

This article was first published in The New Paper.

readers' comments
Check the child's family background carefully. The child does not need to have rocket scientist DNA but the family must be proper.

I have seen my relatives having adopted children.

One child is a spendthrift. No amount of money is enough for him. The other child is diseased.

My neighbour have an adopted son who was the product of an affair between an employer and his maid. The child was good at his studies bagging straight As in the 1980s. But he went to jail becos of corruption. This was despite the fact that the childless couple brought up the child in the best possible environment. So DNA plays an important part.
Posted by Peter Low on Tue, 3 Apr 2012 at 14:16 PM
Go ahead and adopt a child. The wonders are unbelievable and life acquires its true meaning. It takes us to another level.
Posted by Summers3 on Mon, 2 Apr 2012 at 15:13 PM

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